Trust in Friendship & Love

Is it possible there's a love at first sight relationship?  Will that last long and will everyone live happily ever after?  Does a man know his love by looking at her smile and want to spend his life with her? A relationship needs time to develop its love, trust and mutual understanding so how can love at first sight comes across? How can a person falls in love at first sight?  Maybe it's all chemistry.  But does chemistry last long?  Love is so magical and miracle. Sometimes when you find the person you love, from nowhere. People searching throughout their lives.  Maybe when you're not looking purposely, your love one will exist in front of you and at an instant, you fall in love.

Love is Blind. This is very true. You don't see clearly when you're fallen in love. When you start seeing clearly, that is the end of a relationship. When you start asking about what is love? Or will I be better off to start all over again without him/her? The relationship is in danger. But who can save the relationship? You? Him/her? Well, may be both of you need to find out what is the problem. There's no one way street in a love relationship. A relationship that can last is in a two way street. We both need to understand each other. If one side understood is not enough, both sides need to understand each other. But how often you find a two way street? Love is hard to find but it's even harder to find one love that last forever.

Does a long distance relationship ever work?  Some people said never... Some people said it's hard to maintain... But sometimes, if you survive a long distance relationship, your relationship will be stronger and lasts long.  It's hard to have a relationship in long distance physically and mentally.  Sometimes when you need your love ones and they are not available because of the distance, you tend to find someone else nearby to share with.  That's why sometimes another relationship maybe developing without your notice.  It's hard to maintain a relationship without much communication therefore when it comes to a long distance relationship, communication is the major key for the relationship to survive. Both parties must try the best to maintain the relationship, if one fails the whole relationship will fail as well... But if a long distance relationship survive, you will treasure each other more when you two together and will the relationship stronger and securer.

 When you have a question, you have to ask but will you always have an answer? Or what if you afraid to ask the question? Then the question will carry within you throughout your life without an answer. But do you really want to know the answer? Sometimes the answer will hurt as much as the question remain silence. Honesty is a good thing to have. But sometimes too honest may ruin your life. Life has so many questions that you may want to know the answers. But some questions that you may want to ignore and choose to escape from the answers which are right in front of you. Sometimes, there's a question that is so important to you, you will do whatever you can to find out the answer. But also, there's a question that is so important to you that you are afraid to have the answer for your question that will keep secretly inside your heart for rest of your life.