I do not believe in holding any other human Being hostage. Surely not literally and also not figuratively.
My Friendship is gifted with NO strings attached. What that means is this: a web site or a chat messenger is not the be all and end all to being a friend. If you were given my outside email addy or my phone number or both that is becuz YOU are a Forever Friend. You are not required to then do anything to continue to be a Friend. You can not talk to me and not communicate with me for years and then suddenly you can make contact again ~ and I WILL be right there for YOU.
If you require me to be ON this site to be your Friend ~ you will be sadly disappointed. For requirements such as that placed upon me will sooner or later leave you alone disappointed.
I am NOT placing any requirement upon you. If I have said you are a Forever Friend you are. If you choose that you do not need me as a Friend that still does NOT stop me from maintaining YOU as a Friend inside my Heart. This Heart of mine deletes NO ONE. Ten years from now (Life willing) you suddenly decide to make contact you will find that I have been caring gently with Love for YOU right inside my Heart. It will show in the happiness in my voice when you call. It will show in the delighted response when you email me. It will show upon my face when you greet me face to face.
I do not require you jump thru any hoops to have placed YOU on the Friends List in my Heart.
Many a friend from many years ago has discovered just how true this really is when they called or wrote again after all the years.
Unless I am dead I respond. Unless I am in detention I respond.
When someone says to me: If you do this or you do not do that then you do not really Love me and/or then you are not really my Friend ~
Here is my response: I am sad that you feel the need to put some sort of tether on me to keep me as a friend or to keep my Love. For when I gave the Friendship ~ when i gave the Love ~ it truly was Forever no matter what. I hope someday you may learn that there never is a need to place any tethers upon a relationship that is secure. I hope you will be able to overcome the insecurities inside you now someday somehow somewhere ~ that then you might truly know you know you know this Forever friendship ~ Forever Love no matter what.
We can not hope to hold hostage or to tie down what was always meant to be freely given.
My Friendship is gifted with NO strings attached. What that means is this: a web site or a chat messenger is not the be all and end all to being a friend. If you were given my outside email addy or my phone number or both that is becuz YOU are a Forever Friend. You are not required to then do anything to continue to be a Friend. You can not talk to me and not communicate with me for years and then suddenly you can make contact again ~ and I WILL be right there for YOU.
If you require me to be ON this site to be your Friend ~ you will be sadly disappointed. For requirements such as that placed upon me will sooner or later leave you alone disappointed.
I am NOT placing any requirement upon you. If I have said you are a Forever Friend you are. If you choose that you do not need me as a Friend that still does NOT stop me from maintaining YOU as a Friend inside my Heart. This Heart of mine deletes NO ONE. Ten years from now (Life willing) you suddenly decide to make contact you will find that I have been caring gently with Love for YOU right inside my Heart. It will show in the happiness in my voice when you call. It will show in the delighted response when you email me. It will show upon my face when you greet me face to face.
I do not require you jump thru any hoops to have placed YOU on the Friends List in my Heart.
Many a friend from many years ago has discovered just how true this really is when they called or wrote again after all the years.
Unless I am dead I respond. Unless I am in detention I respond.
When someone says to me: If you do this or you do not do that then you do not really Love me and/or then you are not really my Friend ~
Here is my response: I am sad that you feel the need to put some sort of tether on me to keep me as a friend or to keep my Love. For when I gave the Friendship ~ when i gave the Love ~ it truly was Forever no matter what. I hope someday you may learn that there never is a need to place any tethers upon a relationship that is secure. I hope you will be able to overcome the insecurities inside you now someday somehow somewhere ~ that then you might truly know you know you know this Forever friendship ~ Forever Love no matter what.
We can not hope to hold hostage or to tie down what was always meant to be freely given.
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